The truth is ladies, women often debate over night out dresses, the styles they should wear on a date or out to a bar or club with friends. Should those dresses be sexy or conservative? There are good points and bad points to both styles.
The truth is, a little mix of both is always a great option to choose from, a little sexy while still remaining classy and conservative. The tips below will help women decide between sexy and conservative cocktail dresses.
What Does He Like?
Women often try to focus on what their date will like rather than what they will feel comfortable in. Women assume that men like to have a woman on their arm that dresses at least a little provocative.
While this may be true, it does not mean that he wants the woman to show all of her assets off at once. Guys also like a woman who cares enough about herself to respect her body and her appearance. Besides, guys like it when there is at least something left to the imagination.
What Do You Like?
Night going out dresses should make the woman feel just as good as the man. A woman should choose something that makes her feel comfortable and sexy. Expect to sit and stand, which means wearing something that will not slip off to reveal too much. Try on form fitting tops and loose fitting skirts.
This is an especially flirty look that is both sexy and conservative at the same time. There is nothing wrong with mixing elegance and grace with sex appeal. Besides, elegance can ooze plenty of sex appeal as it reveals a woman with sophistication, the kind of woman he would like to take home to his mother.
Conservative – The Good and the Bad
The great thing about a conservative style is that it speaks volumes about a woman’s knowledge in her appearance. She does not appear too needy or self-indulged in her good looks. However, there are some bad points to the conservative look.
For example, a man might perceive a woman too conservatively dressed as prude, uptight or even lacking in self-esteem. If dressing conservatively is the final choice, try to avoid the old schoolmarm look.
Sexy – The Good and the Bad
Dressing sexy lets a man know that the woman he is with is proud of her body. She is not afraid to show a little skin, but the keyword is a “little” rather than a lot. The bad part of dressing too sexy is that showing too much skin might give off the wrong impression.
A guy might perceive this look as a woman wanting nothing more than one night of fun rather than a long-term relationship.
Mixing the Two
Mix and match outfits so that they are a perfect blend of conservative and sexy. Try a fitted top with a scoop neck, but nothing that is too low or revealing. A bare shouldered top with a higher neckline is also a great choice.
Pair this with a loose, flared knee length or mid-thigh skirt. The looseness of the skirt is flirty and sexy while the length of the skirt offers a conservative look that women feel comfortable with.